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Everyone loves a good automotive story involving spite. The Ford GT40 is perhaps the most famous of these stories, but even on a much smaller scale, there’s just something funny about people making huge decisions just to thumb their nose at someone who has annoyed them. The story of this 2006 BMW 550i definitely has an element of spite to it.
Over the 4th of July weekend, my family went up to Lake Holiday in Illinois to stay with one of my dad’s old friends whom I had never met. We’ll call him Bob, because that’s not his name. Bob is not a huge car guy the way most of us are, but he certainly has a healthy respect, enjoyment, and understanding of a good automobile. His car reflects this. It’s an E60 BMW 550i, rear wheel drive with a 6-speed manual transmission. The car has been in the family since new, but it wasn’t originally his. Bob’s father, who we’ll call Phil, was a lawyer, and something of a condescending, abrasive know-it-all. He and his son never had a great relationship, and Phil’s relationship was even more hostile with Bob’s wife Jane. Bob and Jane are both actuaries, and in 2006, Bob bought himself a brand new Mercedes-Benz E350. A nice car, to be sure, but Phil couldn’t be caught admitting this fact.
As most of us know, Mercedes at the time was in the final years of a corporate partnership with Chrysler, and this partnership was the subject of Phil’s scorn towards his son. “You spent all that money on a Chrysler! ” Phil would tease. “I can’t believe you bought a Chrysler! My new car is much better than that!” Enter Jane, who knows nothing about cars, but hates her father-in-law and will defend her husband against anyone. “Oh really?” she shot back. “And what is that?”
“I got myself a BMW 5-Series! A real piece of German engineering, not some shitty rental car with a star thrown on the front!” That was enough to set Jane on a tirade against Phil’s BMW. Even though she had no clue what she was talking about, she proceeded to rip apart the BMW as being overpriced, unreliable, poorly-made, unsafe, uncomfortable, and generally the worst car since the Yugo.
Fast forward ten years. Phil’s relationship with his son and daughter-in-law has improved somewhat; they can now be in the same room without fighting and can even exchange pleasant chit-chat when need be. Sadly, Phil passes away around this time. I say the relationship had improved slightly, but it still wasn’t completely whole. Phil left nothing to his son in his will. The substantial amount of money he earned during his decades as a successful attorney was divided up amongst his granddaughters, with some set aside for their college and the rest going into trust funds, redeemable on each child’s 25th birthday. The rest of his earthly possessions were sold and and the profit also went to the grandchildren. Only one item of the estate was not dealt with in this way.
Per the will:
“To my daughter-in-law, Jane Smith, assuming I still own it, I bequeath my 2006 BMW 550i sedan. She is of the opinion that it is a terrible car, and I want her to know once and for all what a fantastic automobile it is, and how much better it is than my son’s old Chrysler.”
“But she doesn’t want to learn how to drive stick,” Bob smirks as he concludes the story to me, “so I sold the Mercedes and now the BMW is mine. Good car, too. Fast as hell.”
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Ford wasn’t the only one who wanted to spite Enzo Ferrari.
The entire existence of Automobili Lamborghini is an exercise in spite.
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Also true, but less definitively documented.
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My mom’s relationship with my dad’s parents is complicated, as are her relationships with many people. But it was especially difficult between her and my now-deceased grandpa who was a piece of work himself.
My grandma is 94, and slowly spending the 7-figure nest egg that was there when my grandpa died a couple years ago on her 24/7 in-home care aides. My dad has 1 sister, and my parents have plenty of their own money. So supposedly he told my grandma to bypass him in the will and split his half among me and my 2 siblings. I don’t know if that ever came to pass.
It’s weird, people of the baby boom generation are oddly fixated on who inherits what material possession, especially china. When I helped my mom clean out her mom’s condo when she moved to assisted living, my mom meticulously catalogged every piece of fine china so she and her siblings could argue about who gets what.
Meanwhile, my dad’s mom, whenever she can, she tries to pawn off random items on us grandkids, including furniture, even though we live hundreds of miles away from her. She just wants there to be less stuff in her apartment when she dies, even though while she’s in a wheelchair and has 24/7 aides, she’s not exactly on death’s door.
When it came time to figure out which grandkid got the china, my aunt offered it to me as the eldest grandchild, like this is the most precious thing in the world and I get first crack at it.
I figured hey why not, it’d be nice to have and my wife and I didn’t even bother registering for china for our wedding because we have nowhere to put it and no use for it. We just got nice Denby regular plates and dishes and whatnot. I could tell my aunt was disappointed that I wasn’t more in awe of the fine china.
None of my siblings or cousins were upset that I claimed it when offered to me either. I haven’t heard anything about it.
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Wow what an insufferable dickhead to do that to his child through his will.
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Bloody hell, look at the brakedust on that!!!!!
Ouch.
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Interesting license plate
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Reminds me of the old joke, what do you call a guy with no arms and legs in a hole in the ground? Phil.
Anyway, it takes a special kind of douche to reach out and Ahab someone with their dying wish. Bet he was fun at parties.
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Yeah, he was something of a twat.
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I *knew* someone was gonna bring that up.
Though I suppose I’ll give you a pass given your credentials.
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He’s originally from Nebraska, which is where I live, and Blackshirt is a reference to the Nebraska Cornhuskers.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blackshirts_(American_football)
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Yeah, from what his son told me, he was a dick.
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Ah that makes sense, never heard of that. The term in general has kind of a negative connotation.
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But cleaning wheels is so easy these days.
Spray on, let dwell (not dry) and pressure wash off.
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Yeah, weren’t they like Mussolini’s version of the SS?
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I used to do something sort of like this on our X3, and two days later the fronts would be grey again.
Enthusiasts complain a lot about luxury cars (particularly BMWS which seem to struggle with it a lot) driving around with lots of brake dust, but if it’s just someone’s DD and they aren’t that into cars I can’t really judge them for not washing it constantly. On some models, especially BMWs like I said, it’s just not worth it to clean them regularly because of how quickly they look dirty again.
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Or SA, but, yeah. But maybe obscure enough to not attract the attention of a typical passerby. “BRNSHRT” might not be so lucky - although in this new age, maybe some would embrace it.
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True. I see it all the time on our BMW police cars.
Though they should be cleaned before every shift.
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My Papaw -grandpa- had this 1990 Nissan 300ZX in perfect shape, 12K on the clock.
When he passed away a year ago, there were some people in line for that one.
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He was a lawyer, so there’s that.
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Don’t forget the guy with no arms and no legs in the ocean . . . Bob.
Both represented in the story!
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Right you are!
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Yeah we’ve all figured that out a few paragraphs ago. I mean he did drive a BMW.
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You’d love my cars. Track pads make cleaning wheels an exercise in futility
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That story is interesting in itself, but I particularly like the way it was told.
Good show.
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There’s also the guy with no arms and no legs hung up on the wall: “Art”.
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It was not their official name, but don’t forget the fans of Mosley the Elder.
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Or the guy with no arms and no legs under a car? Axel.
Had to get a car themed one in there, right?
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In front of a door . . . . Matt.
Under the car . . . . Jack
In your mailbox . . . . Bill
Hanging on the wall . . . . Art
We could go on for days, they never get old.
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They started out old, and it doesn’t matter.
What do you call a guy with no arms and no legs with a spade? Doug
What do you call a guy with no arms and no legs without a spade? Douglas
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So every Mercedes is a Chrysler just because Mercedes and Chrysler were partnered. That’s dumb. I guess every VW Golf is really a Lambo then.
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I forgot Limeyland had their own wanna-nazis (don’t want to capitalize it). Maybe not surprising.